Are you tired of swiping through dating apps or going on dates with the wrong people? It’s time to take a step back and focus on attracting the love you deserve.
Here are 4 tips to increase your chances of finding true love:
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Pay attention to what you say to yourself
Stop looking outward and start looking inward. Look at how you communicate with yourself in different areas of your life.
Do you ever say any of these things to yourself?
“That’s not going to work.” (before you’ve even tried?)
“Dating is so hard, I’m never going to find the right person for me.” (can’t attract if you don’t believe!)
“I should do that, maybe tomorrow.” (then weeks or months pass by)
“This is so frustrating!” (without reassuring yourself that things will work out for you.)These are all examples of self-sabotage and feelings of not being good enough. When these types of statements come up, talk yourself through it. Acknowledge the feelings and thoughts that are coming up for you and remind yourself that you are worth more and are willing to do more for yourself! -
Get clear on what you want
What do YOU actually desire? It’s important to know what you’re looking for in a partner. Write down the qualities and characteristics you want in a relationship, and be clear and specific about what you need in a partner.Once you’ve written all of that down, fold it up and place it somewhere that you don’t look at often such as a drawer or under a candle. Your subconscious mind will remember what you wrote and help you attract that person while you are not thinking about it.
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Gravitate toward new experiences
Be open to new experiences: Get out of your normal routine! When you shift your routin, you’ll meet new people and increase your chances of meeting people. At some point, you’ll meet the person for you. You might meet them or through your new friends! Not sure of where to go?Attend events through websites like meetup.com or Facebook, have an open mind and see how it goes!
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Trust the process
Attracting anything into your life takes time, patience, and trust. Enjoy the process of self-discovery, and know that the universe is working even when you can’t see it.
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