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How To Find Love: Finding Your Soulmate Starts With You

Are you tired of swiping through dating apps or going on dates with the wrong people? It’s time to take a step back and focus on attracting the love you deserve. 

Here are 4 tips to increase your chances of finding true love:

  1. Pay attention to what you say to yourself

    Stop looking outward and start looking inward. Look at how you communicate with yourself in different areas of your life.

    Do you ever say any of these things to yourself?

    “That’s not going to work.” (before you’ve even tried?)
    “Dating is so hard, I’m never going to find the right person for me.” (can’t attract if you don’t believe!)
    “I should do that, maybe tomorrow.” (then weeks or months pass by)
    “This is so frustrating!” (without reassuring yourself that things will work out for you.)These are all examples of self-sabotage and feelings of not being good enough. When these types of statements come up, talk yourself through it. Acknowledge the feelings and thoughts that are coming up for you and remind yourself that you are worth more and are willing to do more for yourself!

  2. Get clear on what you want

    What do YOU actually desire? It’s important to know what you’re looking for in a partner. Write down the qualities and characteristics you want in a relationship, and be clear and specific about what you need in a partner.Once you’ve written all of that down, fold it up and place it somewhere that you don’t look at often such as a drawer or under a candle. Your subconscious mind will remember what you wrote and help you attract that person while you are not thinking about it.

  3. Gravitate toward new experiences

    Be open to new experiences: Get out of your normal routine! When you shift your routin, you’ll meet new people and increase your chances of meeting people. At some point, you’ll meet the person for you. You might meet them or through your new friends! Not sure of where to go?Attend events through websites like meetup.com or Facebook, have an open mind and see how it goes!

  4. Trust the process

    Attracting anything into your life takes time, patience, and trust. Enjoy the process of self-discovery, and know that the universe is working even when you can’t see it.

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Finding Your Soulmate Starts With You

Are you tired of swiping through dating apps or going on dates with the wrong people? It’s time to take a step back and focus on attracting the love you deserve. Here’s how!

Here are 4 tips to increase your chances of finding true love:

  1. Pay attention to what you say to yourself:

    Stop looking outward and start looking inward.

    Look at how you communicate with yourself in different areas of your life. Do you ever say any of these things to yourself?“That’s not going to work.” (before you’ve even tried?)
    “Dating is so hard, I’m never going to find the right person for me.”
    “I should do that, maybe tomorrow.” (then weeks pass by)
    “This is so frustrating!” (without reassuring yourself that things will work out for you.)

    These are all examples of self-sabotage and feelings of not being good enough. When these types of statements come up, talk yourself through it. Acknowledge the feelings and thoughts that are coming up for you and remind yourself that you are worth more and are willing to do more for yourself! It’s impossible to attract someone who truly loves and values you if you don’t love and value yourself first. Once you shift your mindset, you’ll start to receive different results.

  2. Get clear on what you want:

    What do YOU actually desire? It’s important to know what you’re looking for in a partner. Write down the qualities and characteristics you want in a relationship, and be clear and specific about what you need in a partner.

    Once you’ve written all of that down, fold it up and place it somewhere that you don’t look at often such as a drawer or under a candle. Your subconscious mind will remember what you wrote and help you attract that person while you are not thinking about it.

  3. Gravitate toward new experiences:

    Take baby steps towards the unfamiliar. Every time you shift your old routine, you open your world up to new opportunities. You’ll get to meet new people then increase your chances of meeting people who share your interests and values. At some point you’ll meet the person for you or your new friends will introduce you to someone that fits the attributes on your list. Not sure of where to go? Join interest groups on websites like meetup.com, have an open mind and see how it goes!

  4. Trust the process:

    Attracting anything into your life takes time, patience, and trust. Focus on the journey, enjoy the process of self-discovery, and know that the universe is working even when you can’t see it.

    It’s common not to see external evidence that your soulmate is coming. The most important factor is that you talk yourself out of being discouraged! Finding your soulmate is an inside job. How you feel inside reflects like a mirror on the outside.

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Stop Chasing, Start Attracting

There is a current social media trend of using this powerful affirmation “I don’t chase, I attract. What belongs to me, will simply find me.” The power of this trend is to encourage people to step into their own power and give them a boost of confidence. It comes from a place of pure confidence, and belief that things maneuver their way to us.

Chasing

Confidence and chasing are two completely opposite energies. Chasing comes from a place of fear. Fear of losing someone or something, trying so hard, struggling, and feelings of insecurities coming to the surface. We act on our feelings which are a result of our thoughts (affirmations). Therefore, all the inner dialogue that we currently have is based on our inner state. Chasing is a low vibrational energy that indicates suffering and heightened anxiety. At some point, these thoughts and feelings become habitual that it feels hard to break. Dr. Joe Dispenza explained that repetitive patterns of thinking which generate feelings lead to the body and the mind becoming one.

“Your mind will be like its habitual thoughts; for the soul becomes dyed with the color of its thoughts. Soak it then in such trains of thoughts as, for example: Where life is possible at all, a right life is possible.”
— Marcus Aurelius

Confidence

Start asking yourself “what am I currently chasing and why?” and take note of the things, people, and places that you’re chasing. From there you create awareness on where your anxiety lies, and where it comes from. Chasing is repelling. Confidence is attractive. Take the chasing energy and switch it to confidence energy. Decide to stop chasing.

  1. Work on releasing the anxiety, and practice soothing yourself, this will remove the urge to chase, and you will be much happier.
  2. Build your confidence in yourself, and start believing in your capability to have anything in this life.
  3. Start believing that the Universe/God will deliver what belongs to you.

Live every day with that knowing, that things find you. That there is nothing to chase. You can relax and trust in that. Allow yourselves to take inspired actions solely, rather than try so hard to make things happen.

Do I Deserve Love?

Human beings tend to go on a spiral when it comes to insecurities which manifest into doubts and fears. Everyone has insecurities, it is normal for human beings, however, it can be detrimental if not controlled.

There are a lot of reasons why we question whether we deserve love. As listed on Huffington Post, a lot of it stems from painful past experiences. Whoever you are, wherever you and whatever happened to you, know that there is only ONE of you and that is your power.

In your reality, there is only you. Everyone else is your mirror. They are attracted to you by your thoughts and you are the person that is in control of your reality. That’s how much power you hold!

Everyone in your reality is energy that matches your energy and that’s what they vibrate on. The moment you raise your love vibration, the people in your life respond to that energy.

Put yourself on a pedestal by operating from a state of ‘having.’ Build your self-confidence. Start allowing yourself to feel that you are worthy. Appreciate your inner and outer beauty, your strengths and qualities.

The moment you do that, you begin to attract that special someone that lives up to YOUR standards.

Tell yourself that YOU ARE magnetic and desirable. The moment you do that, you place that trust in yourself and the Universe.

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Have a great day because you deserve it!

The Key To True Love Is To Know Your Self Worth

If you want to be in the romantic relationship of your dreams, make sure you have done the self-exploration and growth that will help you attract the best possible partnership.

Be clear on what you want out of a relationship and why you want it. We all feel lonely sometimes, but loneliness shouldn’t be the only motivation for your search for love. Getting into a romantic relationship also shouldn’t be used as a way to avoid or fix problems in your life. You should be comfortable and happy with yourself first. New relationships are exciting, even thrilling, but they’re not a solution for your insecurity or unhappiness.

Don’t give in to fear and limiting beliefs! It takes focus and time to find and build a loving relationship. You will face disappointments along the way. But don’t let your emotions lead you astray. No matter what happens, you will need to stay on track to reach your relationship goals. Have confidence in yourself and what you want. It will make you a better partner. This article in Psychology Today reminds us, “With such personal investment comes risk but being vulnerable and open is essential to fostering commitment and relationship stability.”

The best relationships are those where we feel loved and accepted for exactly who we are. Your mom, your friends, and your teachers have probably told you, “Be yourself.” They were right! Know your worth. If someone you are dating or in a relationship with pressures you to change, be brave enough to let them go. You deserve better.

Finding love in this day and age can be complicated and there’s no guaranteed formula for success. Knowing exactly what you want and deserve in a relationship is the most powerful way to start your search.

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Access these hypnosis programs on your journey to find true love. Use them several times a week to free yourself from limiting beliefs. Find the man or woman of your dreams and the relationship you desire. You are worth it.